No Marriage on Tiger Year

[slkever]

Hi lcly77,thks a lot for your advise.

[Ken]

Hi slkever,

What Lcly is trying to explain is that of 一物一太极 Each individual Subject has a circle of influence around them.  Your circle of influence is not 100% identical to your husband's.  Tiger in your chart does not necessarily represent your husband even if he is born in the year of Tiger.  Ditto for your chart and vice versa.

This also brings to a pertinent point - that comparison of compatibility between charts of couples should be made by comparing the Circle of Influence of both persons and not 1 single element within each person's chart.

[lcly77]

Ken, thanks a lot for helping me to explain it 

I find it hard to explain 

[Ken]

Hi Lcly,

I think you explain it quite well actually.  It is just my instinct as a teacher-wannabe to want to try to explain it further with more analogy. 

[lcly77]

haha.. you are too humble, Ken...

[slkever]

Hi Master Ken and lcly77,thank you very much for your explaination.

yours sincerely,
slkever