clash to resource

[Ken]

Hi quills,

That's right.  You understood the critical concept.  The only thing is that affinity does not always come in one form.  Hence the challenge is that sometimes is appears less conspicuous and we have to go deeper to get a clearer picture.

[Gemini]

yeah, i've been trying to do that. but it's not easy when the mood is not in. have to learn more.
how do you calm yourself, Gemini? would you share?

Me also struggling.   
Are you having your moody-ness lately?

But btw, Bing Xin still result in water despite of the season?

Bing Xin does not transform, but the intention is there.  If transformed, your parents are willing to sacrifice for u. 

Mmm... they don't really spoil us actually... it's more like, my parents and my uncles aunties spend more money on them... Providing both sides, their parents and children... Honestly, I don't really remember being with my grandparents. that much. So I could be wrong.

Thanks for the feedback, so seems like the Year Pillar is referring to distant relatives (your uncles, etc). 

How do Yin Mao 1/2 combo to wood and Bing Xin combo refer to they "used to be closed" and that they tend to spoil the grandkids?

When there is a combo, it generally implies a relationship or bonding.  The spoiling part was trying to read from the gods being unfavorable. 

Do you mean YOU SI in branch and Bing Xin combo in stem?

Yes

Father's palace being month branch yes? Wealth star is Ding or Si? How about Bing? Mmm... bit confused here, help?

I used both Ding in my earlier radings.  .
Is Father and Uncle close?  Does your Father has to travel far from home to work?

[quills]

Are you having your moody-ness lately??

Yes, it's been quite strong too... I've been quite sensitive and lose focus at work lately. Is it because of Yi Hai month?
But I've been repeating that "cure" you wrote to me in my head everytime I feel lost. Listen to the sixth sense, which is actually more about trying to be patient. So it's not bad.
What would you recommend to do to harness our sixth sense?

Mmm... they don't really spoil us actually... it's more like, my parents and my uncles aunties spend more money on them... Providing both sides, their parents and children... Honestly, I don't really remember being with my grandparents. that much. So I could be wrong

Thanks for the feedback, so seems like the Year Pillar is referring to distant relatives (your uncles, etc)

Oh, but parents from my mother's side used to be the high prestige type and quite well known in their hometown community. It's just at the moment they have to take care of my grandma cos she's all alone and old.
Unlike my dad's side, which was quite poor. And my dad can be considered the one who's most successful compared to his siblings.

When there is a combo, it generally implies a relationship or bonding.  The spoiling part was trying to read from the gods being unfavorable. 

That's interesting to know Thank you.

I used both Ding in my earlier radings.  .
Is Father and Uncle close?  Does your Father has to travel far from home to work?

Father and Uncle... there's only one uncle, they're okay... But my dad has been the one who lends a hand towards him.
Yes, he has to travel far from home to work... But depends how far is your far mean
I think my mom has to travel further from home to work than dad... hehehe....

Thank you, Gemini

[quills]

Hi quills,

That's right.  You understood the critical concept.  The only thing is that affinity does not always come in one form.  Hence the challenge is that sometimes is appears less conspicuous and we have to go deeper to get a clearer picture.

Hi Ken,

I agree with you.
I find out that me and my bf have a similar type chart (though no clashes for him), where the Indirect Resource is there and favourable. And that is like having someone who's having the same mind with me deep within, but in a diff way.
Like, I just can't explain it in words, but it's there and it's much deeper than chemistry.

[Gemini]

Are you having your moody-ness lately??

Yes, it's been quite strong too... I've been quite sensitive and lose focus at work lately. Is it because of Yi Hai month?

Yi is output can mean stress, furthermore, it disturb your Xin IR.  Xin in Month Stem can represent your boss, so she shld be affected (saw your posting in divination).

But I've been repeating that "cure" you wrote to me in my head everytime I feel lost. Listen to the sixth sense, which is actually more about trying to be patient. So it's not bad.
What would you recommend to do to harness our sixth sense?

By theory, any thing that strengthen or link to resource will make you feel better.  So every time you feel vex, you tends to go researching, e.g into metaphysics.  You can also try talking to elders or superiors, just chit chat.  Talking to your sub-ordinate usually make you feel more stress. 

Will comment on other points when have time.   

[quills]

Thank you, Gemini
This makes me feel better.
Oh, and talking to my mom usually makes me feel better too. She gives me spirit.

Thank you for being so kind

[Nobunaga]

Hi Ken,
i want to ask if the affinity also include hidden stem??

example my DM is Bing Yin , my sister DM is Geng Yin( Hidden Stem is Jia , Bing, Wu )...

So can i assume that she always have me (Bing Yin) in her heart??

Thanx

[Ken]

Hi Nobunaga,

Affinity in Hidden Stem may be stretching it a little bit too much because there the probablity is naturally not very low given that one branch has 3 hidden stems at times.

Think of it as the theory of statistical correlation.  When something is common and appears, we do not say it is statistically correlated.