marriage date

[scwoon]

I would like help for a suitable marriage date for this couple .

Male 24 Dec 1981 Mao hr
Female 26 Sept 1981 Wei hr .

Appreciate any help here .

Thanks

[scwoon]

Since posting the question , I have gone through all the bad dates and good dates
and have narrowed down to a few but 3rd October stands out .
It is a Success day according to 12 Officers chart , day is Xin Si .
which has the Sky Happiness star . According to the 28 Constellation method ,
it is a Horn (Jiao) day which is good day to have for happy events ...
Appreciate any comments or dates to suggests ....

[Ken]

Hi scwoon,

Besides the reasons you cited, any other reasons you considered?

The 4 Pillars of guy is:

Xin   Bing    Geng   Xin
Mao   Zi        Zi      You

Luck Pillar Ding You


The 4 Pillars of gal is:

Ding    Ding   Ding   Xin
Wei     Wei     You   You

Luck Pillar Geng Zi


The 3 pillars of day you selected

Xin   Gui   Ji
Si    You   Chou

[scwoon]

Hi Ken
Besides the day stem Xin combines with guy's Bing in combination relationship ,
and Si (Day)You(birth Year) Chou(Year) are three Harmony combination , the date
has more +ve than -ve .
However I do wonder whether the Day pillar (Si You Chou), which is a metal frame
element is excessive for the guy who has already too much metal in his chart .

 

[Ken]

Hi scwoon,

That's my view as well.  I would prefer to find a day that is favorable for both parties' chart.  Combos is not that critical to me.  And if i incorporate other methods into this date selection, Xin HS day is not exactly that suitable 

[scwoon]

Hi Ken,

Thanks for your input . Perhaps common to both charts is the need to have Wood .
What are the other methods you were referring to ? 

[Ken]

Hi scwoon,

Yes maybe we can have more choices of dates for further discussion?

Other methods are Zi Wei Dou Shu and even Qi Men Dun Jia.